Friday, March 19, 2010

Trust The Process





This week, on my way out of the gym and into the b e a utiful sunshine late Tuesday morning, it occurred to me. I had to take my own advice to let go and trust the process.

Earlier in the morning, I was whipping up a huge batch of anxiety and worry. I didn't need to pull out the recipe. I know it by heart.



5 lbs of of getting way to attached
8 cups of squeezing out God
2 sticks of buying into the idea that I can control things
3 cups of wringing my hands
4 teaspoons getting caught up in myself

Mix well at a feverish pace and bake in the oven until it's burned to a crisp. Tastes terrible and serves not one person.

After spending some time that morning on this God-awful dish (no pun intended) I headed to the gym. After a hearty run on the treadmill, something shifted inside me and I felt soooo liberated.

I remembered that the times in my life when things have worked themselves out, have often been when I've taken a bit of a more passive role, trusting there is a force much greater than I. It is a force who knows what I need more than I do and will reveal it to me, if I remain open.


How do I remain open? Well, somedays I don't but on the days I do, meditation is key.



Meditation frees up the mental space formerly occupied by pesky worry and anxiety, so God's guidance and direction can move on in. It reduces what I call "the frenzies." You know, those moments when we run around like chickens with our heads cut off, attempting to manipulate our circumstances from a total human position, absent of the divine.

So this week, I find myself repeating this mantra, "trust the process."

Not always easy, but trust me, much easier than the alternative and far less mentally exhausting (and more tasty).

Do you find at times you can trust the process more than others? When? I would love to hear all about it!

7 comments:

  1. Hahahahaha...
    Is all I could think of to write.. I am in the midst of not one but two wedding this year !
    ( Yes my children have always plotted against me.)
    But as the big day(s) approach I can see that I don't have control over .. what I don't have control over..

    I have to trust the process as you say.. and Pray that everything turns out..
    Right now I am worrying about every last thing Big and small..
    I am sure when all is said and done. I will be worrying that I didn't enjoy /(trust) the process ...
    Ugh..
    I just remember the line from Out of Africa.
    When Meryl Streep's Character loses a wagon wheel.. An ox .. fights a lioness and almost gets killed.. all in one night..

    and her trusty servant says..

    "God is happy Sabu.. he plays with us."

    And so it goes..

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  2. Oh, My, Stephanie, I am trying to trust the process now!!

    This post came just in time, trust me...It so helps to know that I'm not the only one "whipping a batch of anxiety and worry"... Yesterday was so bad... And I awoke in the middle of the night to come and read this...

    You made me smile... Thank you so much!!!

    Warms hugs!

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  3. Even in the seriousness of this post, you have given me laughter. It makes it easier to take in and useful and important advice.

    I am working hard on trusting the process, but this week has thrown me for quite a loop. Satan is creeping in and filling me with his lies. It's much harder this way.

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  4. Yes, my deep-fried-fretting is a very bitter dish. God will help, but He won't push His way in. Trust-and let go. Good post, Stephanie

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  5. Stephanie, great post. I appreciate the timing of it. Blessings.

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  6. Patience and keeping at it... are important ingredients... like this post.
    Keep praying.

    BM

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  7. my favorite part of this was the recipe ingredients. As most people like to do with one anothers posts; I identify.
    As most people don't like to do...found a few things that made me grimace and decide to drop-back-and-punt to some basics for my own spiritual needs. For both...thank you. Hope this comment finds you and yours well.

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